Pattie and I have kept and updated a 5-year family strategic
plan since early in our marriage. This allows
us to set goals together and celebrate accomplishments when we review it
annually. About 8-years ago, I slipped
in an option in the plan for us to sell everything and travel the country like
gypsies. It was more of a joke or
wishful thinking, but we laughed about it each year when we reviewed the
plan. Then about 3-years ago I came
across the web site www.rv-dreams.com
and began reading how a couple did just that.
The web site is a great resource with hundreds of full-time RV’ers sharing
their experiences. I showed it to Pattie and we began to actually consider this
as an option.
Since we have lived in 12 different locations in our 26
years of marriage, we do not have deep relationships tied to a specific
geographical location. Most of our
family is in Alabama or Georgia and we were living in Maryland where I retired
from the USAF after 24 years. When both
our sons chose to attend Auburn University in Alabama, there was nothing really
keeping us in Maryland and establishing residency in Alabama would cut the
tuition bills in half. The simple
solution would be to just relocate to somewhere in Alabama, but where? This made the RV life for a few years
attractive. We purchased a property in
Auburn for our sons to live in and we could use as our legal residence. We would store about half our things and get
rid of the rest by selling them or giving them to charity. Pattie agreed to the concept, but was not
totally sold. So, we each got some paper and separately wrote down:
- The top 3 reasons we should do this
- The top 3 concerns about doing this
- The 3 things you will miss the most
- The top 3 things we will miss the least
- The top ten things we want to do while full-timing
When we compared notes, many answers were the same. Living in very close quarters, having an exit
strategy, handling emergencies, and financials were top concerns. Being able to make our own schedule and go
where we want together with no set timetable was the number one reason for
full-timing.
We discussed each item and built 2 ½ year program management
timeline (see photo) that enabled us to see the multitude of tasks and events
that needed to take place before we would actually be own our own to explore
those places we want to see. Tasks and
events included selecting a college for our youngest son, getting him a car,
moving him to college, selecting an RV, preparing our home for sale, numerous
yard sales, trips to the dump, and selecting a location to store the items we
want to keep. We were advised to buy the
RV at least six months prior to beginning the adventure to test it and learn
how it all works. We purchased The Bus
about nine months before we began and were able to make some modifications to
it and fit items in it. The most
difficult thing was to determine what to take in The Bus, what to store and
what we could discard. Doing this early
allowed us to move into The Bus and use our much-reduced belongings to stage
the house for sale. This worked well and
our house sold in 10 days mid-June. We
hired a freight forwarder to move our storage items to Alabama and we were on
our way. In December, I gave my final
notice at work and we sold Pattie’s car leaving us with the Jeep Wrangler that
we tow (TOAD).
For anyone considering this lifestyle, I am happy to provide
advice from our lessons learned. There
are also many good references on-line like the rv-dreams web site.
Until next time, thanks for following us at
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